
DBT Skills for Addiction: What Each Set Teaches
DBT skills for addiction come in four sets: mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness. Here is how each one is taught.
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Several third-party sources put return to use after treatment at 40 to 60 percent. Here is how to plan the first year after rehab.
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Several third-party sources put return to use after treatment at 40 to 60 percent. Here is how to plan the first year after rehab.
Between 40 and 60 percent of people treated for a substance use disorder return to use at least once, according to Lake Detox, and UKAT reports that the majority of relapses occur within the first six months of leaving rehab treatment. That window is when the structure of a program ends while old triggers are still close by. Life after rehab is where the second phase of care begins, and at Faith Recovery Center in Beverly Hills we start discharge and aftercare planning during treatment so the plan is written before you leave.
The sections below cover what the first year usually brings, how to choose a level of continuing care, and what to do when things start slipping. Family members helping someone through this transition can use the same plan, since the work of the first year falls on both sides.
Many people describe the first months after leaving rehab as hopeful and unsettling at the same time. Rehab 4 Addiction describes this period as building stability and applying the skills you picked up in treatment to situations in the outside world. That means using them at home, at work, and around people who may not understand what changed. Both feelings are common, and neither one predicts how things will go.
Rehab does not cure a substance use disorder. Several treatment providers, including Free by the Sea, describe addiction as a chronic, relapsing condition that requires ongoing care, daily effort, and long-term commitment. Treatment gives you a foundation, and continuing care is how you build on it over the months that follow (source).
The first month often brings disrupted sleep, mood swings, low energy, and cravings that arrive without warning. Some of this is post-acute withdrawal, a cluster of lingering symptoms that can come and go for weeks or months after physical withdrawal ends. Alcohol and benzodiazepines are commonly linked to it, which is one reason ongoing medical and psychiatric follow-up matters.
Practical friction shows up too, as bills you set aside, a job to return to, and relationships that need repair all compete for attention. Expect a few days to feel worse than your last week of treatment. Savida Health notes that changes in sleep, appetite, or mood lasting more than a few days can point to stress or a mental health concern that deserves attention, so tell your therapist rather than waiting it out.
The risk of returning to use is highest in the first several months after treatment and eases as time in recovery grows. That is why the first year deserves the heaviest support of any stretch in recovery.
Around 30 days, many people notice clearer thinking and better sleep, though cravings still spike under stress. By 90 days, routines usually feel less forced, and you have faced your first round of high-risk situations like a birthday, a bad day at work, or a payday. Around six months, confidence can outrun caution. Lake Detox describes people who assume they no longer need meetings, therapy, or structured support once they have been sober for a while, and that assumption is a common point where warning signs begin.
The one-year mark is meaningful, and it is also where some people quietly drop everything that got them there. Long-term sobriety tends to belong to people who keep some form of support in place even after they feel steady.
Unstructured time is one of the most reliable risks in early recovery, because boredom and isolation give cravings room to grow. A daily routine replaces the schedule treatment provided, and Lake Detox points out that a consistent routine reduces stress, limits idle time, and reinforces new habits. "Stay busy" is too vague to count as a plan, so write down specific times and activities for each part of the day (source).
A workable day might include a fixed wake time, breakfast before checking your phone, 20 to 30 minutes of physical activity, work or volunteering, one recovery contact such as a meeting, therapy session, or call with a sober friend, and a consistent bedtime. Put evenings on paper too, since late hours are when many people used (source).
Some days will not go to plan, and a missed gym session should not also cancel your evening call. Aim to keep most of your anchors in place rather than running a perfect streak (source).
Free by the Sea defines continuing care as the services, routines, and relationships that keep you supported and accountable in the weeks, months, and years after rehab. Treat it like a menu, since most people combine two or three options and adjust them over time.
Outpatient care lets you live at home while keeping clinical treatment in your week. A Partial Hospitalization Program (PHP) is the most intensive step down, with programming most of the day. An Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP) meets several times a week around work or family, and standard outpatient counseling is usually weekly individual or group therapy.
An outpatient aftercare plan after residential treatment typically includes a therapy schedule, psychiatric follow-up if you have a dual diagnosis, medication management or MAT when indicated, relapse prevention work, and a named person to call when things get hard. Keep every follow-up appointment as care steps down, even the ones that feel routine. Missed appointments are often the first visible sign that someone is drifting.
Sober living is a middle ground between residential treatment and full independence. You live in a substance-free home with house rules, shared responsibilities, and housemates who are also in recovery, and Free by the Sea notes that built-in accountability like curfews, chores, and sobriety checks is part of the structure. It suits people whose home environment includes drinking or drug use, whose housing is unstable, or who want more accountability before living alone. We can provide sober living referrals as part of discharge planning when that fits your situation (source).
A support group gives you people who understand cravings without needing an explanation. Alcoholics Anonymous and other 12-step programs are the most widely available, while SMART Recovery and Refuge Recovery offer alternatives for people who prefer a different approach. Groups cost little or nothing and meet daily in most areas, which makes them a strong complement to professional care rather than a replacement for it.
The right level depends on three honest answers about how stable your home is, how strong your cravings still are, and whether you have a co-occurring mental health condition. Use the comparison below as a starting point, then confirm it with your clinical team.
| Your situation | Likely fit |
|---|---|
| Frequent cravings, or recently finished detox and residential care | PHP, possibly with sober living |
| Stable sober home, working or in school, moderate cravings | IOP plus a weekly support group |
| Home includes active substance use | Sober living plus IOP or outpatient therapy |
| Anxiety, depression, trauma, or another dual diagnosis | Outpatient therapy with ongoing psychiatric care |
| Several steady months, strong support network | Standard outpatient counseling and peer groups |
When you are unsure, choose more support rather than less. Stepping down from IOP after a month goes far better than scrambling back into care after a return to use (source).
Our full continuum runs from medical detox through residential treatment, PHP, IOP, outpatient treatment, and aftercare, largely under one roof at our Beverly Hills estate. Because we treat a maximum of 8 patients at a time, the clinicians who write your discharge plan already know your history, your triggers, and your goals. When clinically appropriate, you can step down without changing facilities or losing your team.
Before you leave residential care, we work through the practical details with you, including where you will live and whether it is substance-free, who picks you up on discharge day, when your first outpatient session is, and who you will call at 11 p.m. if a craving hits. The written plan also covers relapse prevention strategies and the ongoing therapy schedule you will follow at home.
Dual diagnosis care continues too. Dr. Julio Meza, our psychiatrist, integrates treatment for anxiety, depression, trauma, bipolar disorder, and related conditions with addiction treatment, while Dr. Jason Giles oversees medical and MAT protocols. We are Joint Commission accredited, licensed by the California Department of Health Care Services, and LegitScript certified.
Your support network after treatment probably needs rebuilding from the ground up, and three to five reliable people is a realistic starting target. Sober friends, a sponsor or peer mentor, a therapist, and a couple of trusted family members give you options when one person is not available.
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Old friends who still drink or use are one of the hardest parts of post-rehab life, and UKAT warns that keeping contact with them in early recovery is likely to lead to temptation. You do not have to announce a dramatic break. You can decline invitations, suggest daytime plans that do not center on substances, or step back quietly. If someone pressures you to use, that tells you what the friendship can offer right now.
Trust with family comes back through consistent behavior over months rather than through a single conversation. Showing up when you say you will and being honest about hard days rebuild credibility faster than any apology, and letting loved ones see your recovery plan helps too. Family therapy gives everyone a structured place to talk about past harm without it turning into the same old argument, and we include family therapy and education when appropriate.
Family members need to heal too, because resentment, fear, and exhaustion are real, and loved ones often benefit from their own counseling or groups like Al-Anon. Relationships improve fastest when both sides are getting support.
Triggers are cues that set off cravings, and knowing yours ahead of time lets you plan instead of react. Savida Health groups them into emotional states, environments, and specific people tied to past use, and it helps to think of four practical types.
Emotional triggers include stress, loneliness, anger, or even celebration after good news. Environmental triggers are places, like driving past a bar you used to visit or walking into the room where you used. Social triggers come from people, such as a coworker's happy hour or a family member who still drinks. Physical triggers are exhaustion, hunger, pain, or poor sleep, any of which lowers your resistance. Recovery Centers of America lists related triggers including stressful events like job loss or divorce, people and places tied to past use, boredom or free time, and negative emotions such as anger, sadness, or anxiety.
Coping strategies work best when they are rehearsed. Pick two you will actually use, such as calling a sober friend or leaving the situation, and practice them before you need them. The CBT and DBT skills you learned in treatment, like urge surfing and distress tolerance, were built for exactly these moments.
Social events where alcohol is served need a plan made before you walk in the door. Bring your own drink, arrive with a sober friend, settle your exit time and ride in advance, and decide how you will answer if someone offers you a drink. In early recovery, skipping the event is also a legitimate choice.
Untreated depression or anxiety is one of the more common paths back to substance use, because the substance used to be how you managed those feelings. If you have a dual diagnosis, keep psychiatric appointments and take medications as prescribed, even when you feel better.
The physical basics carry more weight than they seem to. Regular meals keep blood sugar steady, which reduces the irritability that can feel like a craving. Physical activity lowers stress and improves sleep, and seven to nine hours of rest makes almost everything else easier. You do not need an ambitious fitness plan, because a daily walk around the block counts.
Recovery holds better when you are moving toward something you want instead of spending all your energy staying away from substances. Set small, concrete goals for the first few months, such as finishing a course, rebuilding savings, training for a 5K, or restarting a hobby you dropped (source).
Work often plays a big part, and many people return to their old job. Federal laws like the ADA and FMLA protect some workers in recovery who are receiving treatment, and the U.S. Department of Labor explains FMLA eligibility. Our admissions team can discuss medical leave documentation before you arrive. With an employer, a short, honest answer is enough, such as saying you took medical leave for a health issue that is now being managed. You do not owe anyone clinical details.
A return to use usually starts well before the first drink or dose. Early warning signs include skipping meetings or therapy, isolating, romanticizing past use, sleeping poorly, and deciding you can handle one drink. When you notice two or more, tell someone that day.
If you do return to use, treat it as a signal to add support rather than as proof that recovery is impossible. Sober College makes the same point, noting that a recurrence does not mean treatment failed. Call your therapist, sponsor, or treatment team, and be honest about what happened. A recurrence often means your recovery plan needs adjusting, perhaps with more structure or a higher level of care (source).
“WARNING: Overdose risk is higher after a period of sobriety because tolerance drops, so a previously familiar dose can be dangerous. If you return to opioid use, never use alone, keep naloxone available, and call 911 in an emergency. The SAMHSA National Helpline is free and confidential at 1-800-662-4357.”
Before discharge, know where you will live and confirm it is substance-free, and schedule your first outpatient or therapy appointment so it is already on the calendar when you walk out. Book psychiatric follow-up if you have a co-occurring condition, and save three numbers you can call at any hour. Write down your top triggers with a plan for each one, choose a support group and attend within your first week home, and set a daily routine with fixed wake, meal, and sleep times. Decide now how you will answer offers of alcohol or drugs, agree with family on how you will communicate on hard days, and know exactly what you will do, and who you will call, if you return to use (source).
Many private insurance plans cover outpatient aftercare such as PHP, IOP, and therapy, since addiction treatment is an essential health benefit under federal law. Sober living housing usually is not covered, though clinical services you receive while living there may be. We offer free, confidential benefits verification for plans including Aetna, Anthem, Blue Cross Blue Shield, Cigna, and UnitedHealthcare.
Post-acute withdrawal symptoms often come and go for weeks to several months after acute withdrawal, and occasionally longer, with sleep problems, irritability, and trouble concentrating among the most common. Symptoms typically lessen with time, and ongoing medical and psychiatric care helps you manage them.
After treatment for alcohol use disorder, most people step down to outpatient care and join a support group like Alcoholics Anonymous or SMART Recovery. Because alcohol withdrawal can cause lingering symptoms, medical follow-up is worth keeping in the plan. Social situations involving drinking usually need the most preparation.
The first few months are usually hardest, because cravings and stress are high while new habits are still fragile. Many people also find the six-month period tricky, when feeling well tempts them to drop support. Staying connected to therapy and peers through both stretches matters more than anything else you do.
Some recovery programs suggest waiting about a year before starting a new relationship. Early romance brings intense emotions and can pull attention from your recovery plan. Talk it through with your therapist, who knows your situation.
If you or someone you love is preparing for treatment or needs more support after leaving rehab, our admissions team is available 24/7 at (844) 598-5573. Calls are confidential, no referral is needed, and family members can call on a loved one's behalf. On that same call, we can walk you through Faith Recovery Center's continuum of care and verify your insurance benefits.
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